...so many questions...so many concerns.  Should I?  Should I not?  What is best for the kids?  How does one know whether to pursue a divorce or not?

If these are the kinds of questions going through your mind please CLICK HERE and take time to read this online booklet published by Focus on the Family.  It contains valuable information to consider.  And if still in doubt, give me a call - even if its for a one time consultation.  I will pray and seek God's direction with you as we talk!

(A series based on the book Sacred Marriage by Gary Thomas)

I have a friend who has gone through severe hardships in life, far greater than I ever have. Yet every time he calls – he speaks blessings into my life; he quotes scriptures that uplift me. I can think of several others whom I deeply love and appreciate in similar ways – they too have gone through very difficult times. Whereas many who go through the fire become bitter, others become better… better people, better friends, better lovers of those around them. It convicts me, challenges me, and gives me hope all at the same time.

Marriage can be one of the most challenging arenas from which bitterness or “betterness” comes forth.

I Peter 3: 7 “Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers.”

It has often been said that prayer is essential to experiencing a great marriage. Whereas no doubt this is true, Gary Thomas suggests another perspective that is very worth noting in the chapter: “Good Marriage Fosters Good Prayer.”In referencing the scripture above he notes the following connection - if the husband does well in the way he treats his wife, he can expect more fully to see God work through his prayers. And otherwise NOT!

Here’s the bottom line: If we REALLY want to have a great marriage, then we must become like Christ. He alone was and is the greatest example to us in every regard. When it comes to humility there is no greater picture than Jesus Christ who

Years ago I had a profound experience – a touch of Grace. It left me doubled over and weeping as I marveled at Christ’s love for me. It was a moment so personal and sacred that I am hesitant whenever prompted to share it.